Are you not on my flist? I have no idea who I've friended or not at this point. Up until about a year ago, I had a policy of automatically refriending anyone who friended me, but my flist got to be too big to read doing that as more people started reading my fic, because I do read it if I've got you friended. At least skim to see if I'm interested. So then I stopped, and I've been slowly defriending people as interests change, or whatever.

I have to think about how I want to handle this. At the moment I'm thinking I'll friend anyone who asks and who friends me back (or has already), because I can't see the point of exposing myself to X is X doesn't expose herself back to me. Exhibitionism for all, baby! Anyway, I'll look, and friend you if I haven't done that. Because I also don't archive. Anywhere. So if you ever see anything archived of mine, it was almost certainly done without my permission. And, I don't post to comms in substance - I only post a link to them, not the actual fic. For the same reasons - I want control (or the illusion of it on the internet, because it's not really possible), instant lock-down.